Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

Why do you require screening?

Screening is required not only for my safety, but yours too! I understand your need for discretion. However, putting my safety first guarantees I can continue to entertain clients at my highest-functioning capacity!

What is your screening process?

For clients who have seen a provider before, I do require 2-3 recent references (within the last 6 months). Please include the provider’s website or advertisement, contact information, and a brief memory jogger. I also require your full name. Yes, your real first and last name. If you wish to give me your review site handle/ID, that is appreciated as well, however this alone will not suffice for screening.

If you have never seen a provider before, I do require a work verification. If I cannot be connected to you via the main switchboard, I will accept certain registries (State BAR Registry, Business Registry, State Medical Board, etc), and in some cases a linked-in profile.

Where is your Metro Detroit location?

I am available anywhere in the metro area. While I do not see new friends at my private Midtown Detroit incall, I am able to reserve a room for us in a mid-range to upscale hotel in the radius of Metro Detroit. Thus, if there is an area which is convenient for you, let me know! I shall arrange it.

When are you available?

Unless otherwise specified on my touring schedule, I am available in the Metro Detroit area by appointment only. I have a flexible schedule, and am able to accommodate weekday or weekend rendezvous from 7am-10pm. For repeat clients, I am available later than 10pm. Usually I need a 24 hour notice; however I may be able to accommodate last minute requests on a case-by-case basis (especially outcall appointments).

What is the best way to contact you?

The best way to reach me is through my email, I check this multiple times a day, and will get back to you within 24 hours.

Do you smoke, party, or drink?

I do not smoke cigarettes or consume illegal substances. No, I don’t know where you can get any. I enjoy a glass of Merlot or a nice aged scotch every now and again. However, it makes me quite sleepy, so I do not get intoxicated during appointments. I expect the same from you.

Are your photos real?

Yes, my photos are very real. I blur my face for privacy reasons.

Do you see newbies?

I will consider new clients, given the proper screening information. This includes your first and last name, a copy of your photo ID, and a work verification. For incall appointments or appointments which require me to travel more than 30 minutes, I may require a deposit of 25% for first-time clients.

May I make a clothing request?

You may! I have a pretty diverse lingerie collection. For specific requests, I may or may not be able to fulfill them. You are always welcome to purchase something for me (talk to me about sizing), or order something off my wishlist for our time together.

Can I be your first appointment of the day?

I can only guarantee that you are my first appointment if you schedule an early appointment (7am). If you schedule later than 10am, I cannot guarantee this. You are always welcome to pay me my 12-hour fee, and I will put you first. I pride myself on my hygiene, and am a pretty low-volume provider, so I doubt it would be an issue.

Are you reference-friendly?

I am! If you wish to use me as a reference, please send a memory jogger along with my contact information. I have a good memory, but this should prevent any embarrassing lapses in it. Lewd language is NEVER okay in a memory jogger. An appropriate example would be “My name is John Doe, I was a 50 year-old white male. We met January 3rd at the Marriott at 10am in Downtown Detroit. We chatted about how much we love people watching,”.

If you are a provider who is requesting a reference from me, email is the quickest way to reach me. If you would like to chat with me over the phone we can arrange that as well. I will try to get back with you as soon as I can!

What are your services?

I only charge for my time, and will not tolerate explicit language. If you are unsure of what to do during our time together, click here for some ideas in the metro Detroit area, and here for places I have been wanting to try in other cities.

Do you offer appointments under an hour?

While you are more than welcome to stay for under an hour, my minimum rate is always $350 for Detroit and $400 for all other areas.

Do you have any reviews?

Like you, I value my discretion. Although the internet may seem anonymous, the days of the wild west interwebs are long gone. Most of the gentlemen I see are not self-proclaimed ‘hobbyists’, as they value the natural progression of our relationship over a gotta-catch-em-all mentality. If you are considering writing a review for me, good or bad, I would ask you not to. Although the immediate benefits can be good, the long-term consequences can jeopardize both of us.

Must I tip you?

While tipping is always smiled upon, it is never required. If you are feeling extra generous that day, and would like to express your generosity in the form of money, you are certainly welcome to do so. However, you will get the same dog-and-pony show as anyone else! I assure you, there is no ‘secret menu’ or hidden door to be unlocked. Following the golden rule will get you far with me, as well as most other providers!

If you wish to make a donation in my name, I support these charities:

And, if you must know, I do have a wishlist.

Do you see women/nonbinary/transgender clients?

Genuinely bisexual (attracted to those of my same gender and those of a gender different than myself), I see all genders! I am active in my LGBT community, and am a gender-affirming provider.

Do you see couples?

I do see couples! As stated above, I am genuinely bisexual. For pricing, I use a 1.5x multiplier.

Are you fetish/BDSM/role-play friendly?

Very much so! I am still building up my collection of toys, so if there is something specific you would like, please request it in advance or bring your own. I am well-versed on basic safety, however I am not too skilled in rope.

As for bottoming for you, light fetish play is okay. However I never receive bondage in any of my sessions, and will not receive marks.

I’m pretty good at improvising, and can be quite the actress at times! I would be very open to exploring a role-play fantasy with you.

Do you offer duos?

I sure do! In the Detroit area, my duo partners are Addy Finch, Crysta Heart, Charlie the Girl, and Faith Little. Rates would be my rate plus theirs.

I also have friends nationwide–just ask me! I am always willing to provide recommendations if you are traveling.

Why haven’t I heard from you?

The best way to get in contact with me is my email, If you messaged me on a message board, I may or may not be able to see it (for example, I cannot see any of the messages I receive on TER). If you have emailed me and it has been more than 72 hours, you may want to re-evaluate your correspondence. I do not respond to vulgar language or lewd requests.

If, your politely-crafted email still fails to get a response, I would try DMing me on twitter (@buxom_bunny). I am a millennial, after all.

Do you see people with disabilities?

Yes, I am welcoming of differently-abled people. Please let me know in advance, so I may make the proper accommodations (ie an accessible room).

Do you see people of my race?

I do not discriminate based on race, gender, religion, socioeconomic status (as long as you pay me), education or ability. I do require that you are older than 25 years old, are polite, and give me the proper screening information and payment.

Will you accompany me to my office party/family dinner/corporate event?

Most likely, yes, barring I can’t foresee crossing paths with someone I know! I am young, but I am very poised, and can concoct a flawless backstory on how we met with ease. I bet you could even rope me into posing as your girlfriend to get your family off your back! Holidays would be a premium, of course.

Please let me know the dress code ahead of time so I may prepare accordingly.

Can we meet for coffee first?

I love enjoying a cup of coffee with new friends! As I charge for my time, our coffee date will be a part of our appointment together, and accrue the same fees.

What are your methods of deposit?

I accept bitcoin, circle pay, and popmoney for electronic funds. You may also overnight cash to my p.o. box. In some cases, I may except a giftcard.

How do I pay you?

For new friends, I require a deposit of 25%. Appointments longer than 4 hours require a 50% deposit.

I only take cash, unless electronic payment is taken care of in advance. Please have my rate in an envelope, and place it somewhere I can see it. No need to mention it. If we meet in public first, put it in a book or magazine (I have a wishlist of books, and always accepted used books to donate to SWOP Behind Bars).

What do you like in a partner?

First and foremost, I love someone who is respectful, well-groomed, and polite to service staff. Besides that, I do tend to gravitate towards deep thinkers and those with a sense of adventure. However, I am agreeable with many different personalities!

Do you have social media?

My twitter is @buxom_bunny and my instagram is detroithiddengem.

When are you coming to my city?

If it is not listed on my schedule, it never hurts to put in a request. I will travel on demand for appointments 3 hours or more, provided a 50% deposit is paid up front to cover my travel expenses.

If you were hoping for a shorter appointment, still reach out. Feedback from admirers helps me to decide where to tour next! Gifts from my wishlist or donations to the organizations I support never hurt to show me you are serious, either.

Do you have any tattoos or piercings?

I have my ears singled-pierced, although I don’t always wear earrings. I have a small nose ring (stud), and no tattoos at this time.